Be Yourself

Confession (or lesson) number two.

So I guess I've known this all along but recent encounters and situations have made me realize how important it is to be yourself.

In all of our lives we will make friends, some quickly, others may take time. As those friendships grow and develop sometimes we find that people are not who we once thought that they were. In short, we may find that we are no longer a compatible. Recently, this has happened to me several times. I try to handle those situations by first seeing if the friendship can be salvaged alas sometimes they cannot.

I guess the moral of this story is: when you find yourself in a relationship that is no longer healthy or you no longer enjoy it is probably best to end that relationship. Losing friends is tough but being in a bad relationship is tough as well and can affect other parts of your life such as school or work. So, don't change yourself for anyone people grow together or they grow apart but the most important thing is to stick to who you are.

Also: Sometimes ending friendships can be a dirty thing that leaves people with feelings hurt or prideful as if they were not at all at fault and what happened was unwarranted. Trust me they will get over it.

Keep IT to yourself.

Confession (or lesson) number one.

There are just some things in life that are meant to be kept private. Some things other people should never see. Get my drift?

Recently I had a very disturbing incident which involved me walking in on my roommate at one such moment. Let's just say the experience has scarred me permanently . . . my roommate on the other hand seems to think that it was kind of funny. Now you would think that surely he must be at least somewhat embarrassed by what happened but I'm not sure. The more I get to know this guy the less I can figure out about him.

Anyways, back to my original topic, here's a clue: If you question whether or not what your doing should be seen by other people, it probably shouldn't. So if you find yourself in such as situation take the proper precautions to be sure that your privacy will not be interrupted. We wouldn't want other people having FML moments like myself, now would we?

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